What you’re searching for isn’t where you’ve been looking
The problem you think you have is NOT the real problem, it’s just a symptom.
The problem is that you’ve ignored or neglected one of your 3 dimensions, which has derailed you and is causing all the problems you have.
The Alignment Method 12-week program aligns your body, mind and soul using scientific, psychological and biblical principles:
- without wrestling with your mind and your body
- without searching incessantly for yourself but never finding yourself.
- without years of meditation or mirror affirmations
to get back on track.
See if you recognize yourself below:
You’re here because you know something’s not quite right
Maybe something is causing you pain:
- your body seems to be fighting with you and is more in the way than helpful
- your mind plays tricks on you
- you don’t like what you see in the mirror
- you have problems in your relationship, you fight with your husband or wife, you are about to get divorced, you and your children don’t get along or never did.
- you have no job satisfaction, you go to work just to pay the bills
and you want to change something but you don’t even know where to start.
Maybe you’ve tried different solutions before, with disappointing or no results:
- you’ve been to a psychologist, but it seems like you’ve been dragging your feet and talking about problems without solving anything
- you may have seen a psychiatrist, but you know that taking pills all your life is not a real solution
- you have tried all sorts of remedies, such as meditation, yoga, Reiki, acupuncture and others, without much success
- you’ve even tried the Instagram advice of waking up at 5am and taking cold showers every day, but it doesn’t seem to have changed much
Or maybe you just know that life should be more than this
You yearn to believe that life is more than:
- soulless and meaningless work just for the right to live
- superficial relationships just to escape loneliness
- days that look the same, with nothing special
You wonder more and more:
- what’s the meaning of it all
- if there’s any point to it all
- if you’ll ever find the answers you’re looking for
You feel more and more often:
- the frustration of not finding the solution
- fear of running out of time
- dread that this is all life has to offer
And you’ve had enough of:
- feeling like you’re going round in circles or in a circle
- feeling day by day powerless to change your life
- seeing that another day has gone by where you haven’t made any progress at all
Why is this happening and why do you feel this way?
You, like the world you live in, have 3 dimensions: material, psychological and spiritual. When you ignore or neglect one of the dimensions, it creates an imbalance that causes all sorts of problems and conditions.
If you try to solve the problem where it’s visible, i.e. where the symptoms occur, you will either not solve much, or it will take an extremely long time to do so.
Whatever problem you have and whatever situation you want to solve, the cause and the solution is not in one dimension, but always in all 3.
Which means the solution is to make sure all 3 are working as they should. That is, to be in alignment.
Otherwise, you’re just wasting your time, wasting your money and fooling yourself into thinking you’re doing something to feel better.
How I got to work on alignment
It may sound strange for a psychologist to talk about the dimensions of reality, the soul or biblical principles.
But psychology has always been a bridging discipline. I have long believed that psychology is at the crossroads between science and art.
Now I’ve discovered that psychology is the bridge between science and faith. Not just because that’s where it belongs, but because many people attach more importance to reason and thinking than to matters of faith.
This was also the inspiration for the logo of this website.
who I am is a story that is still being written. just like yours
Nevertheless, there are some roles and titles that represent me better than others: husband, father, Christian, psychologist, psychotherapist, writer, painter, guitarist, composer.
Science, art, psychology, psychology, faith and the search for answers have always been part of my life. The form has changed, I have changed over time, but the direction has always been the same.
Some highlights and other details that may interest you
Specialized studies
Faculty of Psychology, University of Bucharest
Masters in Clinical Psychology and Counseling Psychology
Training in Adlerian psychotherapy
Professional accreditations
National and European accredited psychologist and psychotherapist
Clinical psychologist
Personal Development Counselor
Organizations I belong to
European Federation for Psychotherapy
North American Association of Adlerian Psychology
Romanian Federation for Psychotherapy
Romanian College of Psychologists
Testimonials from those who have worked with me:
Here’s one of the tricks I frequently use in my personal life and with those I work with. Maybe it will help you too:
If you don’t like the answer, change the question
Too many people believe that non-stop hard work is the key to success, only to end up exhausted, overwhelmed and alienated from the ones they love.
The Alignment Method isn’t about pushing yourself harder, it’s about realigning your inner core so you can do what you want to do without having to push yourself.
It all flows from this.